One of the secrets to a healthy relationship in order for it to grow is to feed and take care of it. No relationship becomes healthy, vibrant or joyful from complacency. In fact, the minute proactivity leaves the relationship is the minute it can begin to breakdown. In 31 Creative Ways to Love and encourage Him and Her, Jefferson and Alyssa Bethke lay out simple ways to bring the beauty, joy and vibrancy back to a relationship. Each day brings a new adventure that can range from being serious to whimsical to humorous. Take this one month journey with your significant other and come out the other side with a stronger and more healthy relationship than before.